HP Fandom Wankery
Jun. 21st, 2006 08:59 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I saw this quite a bit on my flist over the last two days. I haven't even finished reading all of it, but I can't get over how sad the whole situation is.
Aside from reading the books, and a small number of fics back in the day, I really am glad I never, ever - in any way, shape, or form - got involved in the Harry Potter fandom. It's just not worth the aggravation of wading through all the unpleasant politics.
This whole story is very sad to me. Yes, it's sad because of the people whose feelings were hurt as a result, but most especially because reading it brought to light (for me, anyway) all of the apparent bitterness circulating throughout the HP fandom in general.
I've always had such fun in the circles in which I've involved myself. I've met lovely people and, although there has been the occasional kerfluffle, I've had very positive experiences.
It must be very sad to be involved in something that, while supposed to be fun, does so much to foster resentful - even nasty - feelings toward others who don't have the same fandom beliefs as you.
Aside from reading the books, and a small number of fics back in the day, I really am glad I never, ever - in any way, shape, or form - got involved in the Harry Potter fandom. It's just not worth the aggravation of wading through all the unpleasant politics.
This whole story is very sad to me. Yes, it's sad because of the people whose feelings were hurt as a result, but most especially because reading it brought to light (for me, anyway) all of the apparent bitterness circulating throughout the HP fandom in general.
I've always had such fun in the circles in which I've involved myself. I've met lovely people and, although there has been the occasional kerfluffle, I've had very positive experiences.
It must be very sad to be involved in something that, while supposed to be fun, does so much to foster resentful - even nasty - feelings toward others who don't have the same fandom beliefs as you.
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Date: 2006-06-22 01:25 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-06-22 01:40 am (UTC)I couldn't get over the "this-group-hates-anyone-involved-with-that-website" and "my-friends-are-going-to-dislike-your-friends-purely-on-principle" nonsense going on. It's really a shame.
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Date: 2006-06-22 02:52 am (UTC)I'll read my books and watch my movies and avoid the people who disturb me!
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Date: 2006-06-22 03:05 am (UTC)(PS -- That icon is adorable! *G*)
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Date: 2006-06-22 10:03 am (UTC)Narnia incest is a growing trend as well. Ugh.
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Date: 2006-06-22 11:34 am (UTC)Mind you, I've been known to enjoy the odd bit of slashy adult N/C fic (poor Leggy gets raped a LOT in LotR fic, I've noticed!) so I'm not really coming from a very strong moral standpoint!
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Date: 2006-06-22 02:08 pm (UTC)I don't like incest in stories either. (There have been authors I really enjoy who have gone that route and I simply couldn't read their stories - no matter how good they probably were.)
I can only think of one story (in the Firefly verse) that made allusions to incest as a subplot that I actually thought was handled well.
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Date: 2006-06-22 02:17 pm (UTC)And the Narnia Kids... No. Just NO! There's so many things wrong with the concept of them getting jiggy.
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Date: 2006-06-22 02:57 pm (UTC)Though that didn't stop Joss from "going there" on occasion. There's one deleted scene from "Our Mrs. Reynolds" that involves River pestering Book to marry her and Simon. It was meant to be funny, but still . . . Eep!
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Date: 2006-06-22 03:10 pm (UTC)The outtake where Zoe & Mal are wearing Wash-like mustaches still makes me giggle like an idiot. And I'd have loved to have seen the outtake they described in The Message, where Mal gets behind every character during a slow pan. Hee hee!
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Date: 2006-06-22 04:21 pm (UTC)Ah, yes! The extended gag reel! Not only was that scene from "The Message" hysterical, but Alan Tudyk has got such a bawdy sense of humor that you don't really get to see on the edited version. Hee!
I actually have that gag reel on my computer. Would you like it? I'd be happy to upload it for you. :)
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Date: 2006-06-22 04:25 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-06-22 04:32 pm (UTC)I'll post as soon as I get the link. ;)
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Date: 2006-06-22 09:28 am (UTC)Fandom should be fun! And I now consider myself very fortunate to have met such nice people through it. It's a great shame that not every one can say the same.
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Date: 2006-06-22 02:50 pm (UTC)Absolutely! I looked at the time it must have taken to chronicle the entire occurrence, and then thought of how much planning must have gone into carrying it out! I can't imagine putting that much effort into forcing recognition and acceptance from people I may never meet.
I much prefer the circles I'm in. Everyone has always been very accepting and nice right away . . . which has made the experience fun. And, as you said, that's what fandom is supposed to be.
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Date: 2006-06-22 10:01 am (UTC)The whole damn fandom just scares me to death. These people are insane (in a bad way), snarky, bitchy, jealous backstabbers and it is SO not worth it. Don't get me started on the BNFs...is it possible to be a BNF and not become a total moron? I've met very few BNFs who I don't want to punch in the face, so to speak. The attitude of these people is appauling. So stuck up, so high school, but worse. Unfortuantly BNFs exist in most every fandom...there's almost always those one or two fans who have their own little snotty clique and have a trail of people who leave them glowing reviews for their often over-rated fanfics. Maybe this rant is making me come off as jealous, and maybe to a point I am - who wouldn't want to be recognised for their fics, etc? Although I do have to say I'd never want BNF status. Far too much wankery comes with that.
But yes, the HP fandom is the worst out there I think. The "Back to the Future" fandom is pretty bad too...I tried to post on the BTTF.com board a few times but the atmosphere of that place is so cold, clique and unwelcoming that I didn't stick around. The Buffy fandom I've dabbled in a little but not enough to really see it's nasty side. And then there's the Doctor Who fandom, which has been on my bad side for some time.
Thank God the D&DC fandom is so nice. I've moaned about it being quiet and small but I think I'd much rather have that than have it be anything like the HP fandom.
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Date: 2006-06-22 10:43 am (UTC)*Cheers in the cheering section*
To darn right!
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Date: 2006-06-22 11:29 am (UTC)*smug*
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Date: 2006-06-22 01:40 pm (UTC)We're all brilliant, clever, talented, and VERY modest!
Aren't we just!
*smug* too
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Date: 2006-06-22 02:35 pm (UTC)We've got spirit, yes we do! We've got spirit, how 'bout you?
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Date: 2006-06-22 02:43 pm (UTC)I'm surprised that BTTF is so bad. As a fandom, they're just as old as D&DC, so it's not like they're as high-profile as Harry Potter would be. I try to avoid any kerfluffles that occur in the Buffy fandom, and I generally avoid DW - except to watch the show.
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Date: 2006-06-22 03:38 pm (UTC)It could just be me, or that particular place in the fandom. I don't really want to go back and test that theory.
This post made me think
Date: 2006-06-22 12:54 pm (UTC)Maybe sitting on the ass in a room alone with a computer is not always the most constructive, fun use of time.
Re: This post made me think
Date: 2006-06-22 01:52 pm (UTC)As for me, I'm going outside now. :)
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Date: 2006-06-22 01:13 pm (UTC)And then people could start writing the fanfic....
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Date: 2006-06-22 01:56 pm (UTC)And it certainly does deserve its own fic.
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Date: 2006-06-22 09:14 pm (UTC)I never really got into the fandom because bottom line, the main characters are largely children. And the NC17 stuff about children in the fanfic squicks me out a bit...
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Date: 2006-06-23 12:21 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-06-23 12:40 am (UTC)It wasn't until I joined the Buffy fandom that I started finding quality NC-17 fics. There were, of course, poorly-written ones as well, but certain authors are quite good.
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Date: 2006-06-23 12:45 am (UTC)The best NC17 fics I've read in the HP fandom have been by "Cinnamon" and "Nancy", both on FictionAlley. Cinnamon is one of those people who can seem to pull of any pairing - she even made me like Draco/Ron. She writes amazing, realisitc sex scenes as well. But yeah, good smut is generally very hard to find in HPdom.
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Date: 2006-06-23 12:58 am (UTC)I've not gotten into many stories that were too graphic in the HP fandom. I think I read one a loooong time ago, but it was set years in the future, so no kids were involved. (And it was a Ron/Pansy, if you can believe that!)
Nowadays, I'm not really into HP fic in general so I don't actively go looking anymore.
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Date: 2006-06-23 12:32 am (UTC)I couldn't have said it better! Absolutely!
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Date: 2006-06-23 12:46 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-06-23 01:01 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-06-24 12:32 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-06-24 12:56 am (UTC)I also had to put it away for a while before I finish reading. (I was starting to look very much like your icon. *G*)
I know I'd *much* rather read more of "Lessons" when you get it written. (*wink wink nudge nudge big grin*)
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Date: 2006-06-24 01:05 am (UTC)Aah Lessons. Yes. Well I keep trying to upload, but ff.net is being a jerk. Sealgirl told me a way of beating the system but I'm too lazy right now. But soon, hopefully. I've got chappy two edited and made a slight edit in chap one, because I realised there was a little plot hole. Hopefully ff.net will fix itself very soon. It's been three days now since I've been unable to upload, and many others are affected.
BTW, I watched Serenity tonight. I probably should have watched more of the series than just the pilot but I was impatient and I understood the movie anyway. Am impressed, the way they brushed Wash's death under the carpet (not even Zoe *really* reacted considering he was her husband) kind of pissed e off. Yes, after only watching the pilot and the movie I'm already a Zoe/Wash shipper and am looking for fanfic. I see you've got one starring them, so I'll read that. And I think I may have to go and buy autographs from Nathan Fillon and Alan Tudyk, who are guests at the London Film & Comic Con next weekend. This trip is going to backrupt me beyond repair.
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Date: 2006-06-24 02:39 am (UTC)Serenity was fantastic. Really brilliantly made, in my opinion. Naturally, however, I also had a hard time with the abruptness of the Wash death scene at first. I needed to see the film a second time to really see Zoe's reaction for what it was. (For a good bit of the climax, my brain was still back on the bridge with Wash and I missed a bit.) It was clear, upon re-watching, that she didn't care if she died too. The Zoe of the series would *never* have gone after the Reavers single-handedly the way she did. (Which you'll see if you continue to watch the show.) That entire sequence was 100% grief on her part.
It was their relationship that fostered much of my interest in FF fic-writing. (I've actually got three stories, all centering around them -- because I'm a positively unapologetic Z/W fan. *G*) There are also some fantastic stories on my rec lists. Most of them focus on Wash/Zoe -- or even just Wash. ('Cause he's my guy. *G*)
And if you get an autograph from Alan, I will be so incredibly jealous. Go you!
Did you end up enjoying the pilot, by the way?
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Date: 2006-06-24 11:42 am (UTC)My tickets for the Con arrived in the post this morning. I'm going to go hoarse from squeeing (my Madonna ticket came yesterday and I danced around like a lunatic clutching it for like, half an hour, lol).
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Date: 2006-06-24 05:42 pm (UTC)Yay for your tickets! I hope you have a wonderful time!